绝望主妇第四季

我们总会因为某个人的某一刻/碎片/特性爱上、欣赏、憎恨他们，但这就是人的复杂性……好久没有看过这么立体、生活在你我之间的角色了（剧里所有的男性角色都想让我直接🔫 biubiubiu）如果我是主妇，相想确实挺绝望的🙄️必须维护好这一个家庭的和睦，变成一个“疯子”、“坏人”（Tom这厮居然活到大结局，编剧脑袋没问题吧？）ed后面下线完全就是编剧把人物设定写崩了，最后还被孤立……我真的服气了……喜欢过Mike的人，怎么会喜欢熊瞎子和牙医，ed的人设看起来就是热爱二十岁出头的热血“莽夫”

好喜欢这首小诗（两版）

Do not stand at my grave and weep,

I am not there, I do not sleep.

I am in a thousand winds that blow,

I am the softly falling snow.

I am the gentle showers of rain,

I am the fields of ripening grain.

I am in the morning hush,

I am in the graceful rush

Of beautiful birds in circling flight,

I am the starshine of the night.

I am in the flowers that bloom,

I am in a quiet room.

I am in the birds that sing,

I am in each lovely thing.

Do not stand at my grave and cry,

I am not there. I do not die.

我不在那，我未沉眠

我身在千风吹送著

我身在柔和的落雪

我身在雨中细柔的淋浴著

我身在成熟谷物的田野

我身在早晨的宁静

我身在优美的急流

美丽的鸟儿在上盘旋

我化为夜晚的星光

我身在盛开的花朵

我身在宁静的房里

我身在鸟儿的歌声中

我身在每样可爱的事物中

别站在我的坟前哭泣

我不在那，我还未离世

Do not stand at my grave and weep;

I am not there, I do not sleep

I am a thousand winds that blow.

I am the diamond glints on snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain.

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush

I am the swift uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circled flight.

I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry;

I am not there. I did not die.

翻译：

不要站在我的坟前哭泣

我不在那，我未沉眠

我化为千风吹送著

我化为雪中闪耀的钻石

我化为阳光洒落在成熟稻谷上

我化为绵绵的秋雨

当你在早晨的宁静中醒来

我化为湍急的溪流

宁静的鸟儿在上方盘旋

我化为温柔的星星在夜晚闪耀着

不要站在我的坟前哭泣

我不在那，我还未离世

美国诗人玛莉·伊丽莎白·弗莱（Mary Elizabeth Frye）

Do not stand at my grave and weep;

I am not there, I do not sleep

I am a thousand winds that blow.

I am the diamond glints on snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain.

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush

I am the swift uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circled flight.

I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry;

I am not there. I did not die.

第十集

So yeah,I sprinkled her ashes,but it would have been nice to do something before she was ashes.

That's a lesson we all gotta learn over and over

不要在我的墓前哭泣

我不在那里　我没有睡去

我是吹拂而过的千缕之风

已化为璀璨似钻的雪花

我是洒落在熟穗上的日光

化为了温柔的秋雨

当你在早晨的寂谧中醒来

是鸟儿沉默盘旋时

雀跃飞升的气流

我是夜晚中闪耀柔光的星子

不要站在我的墓前哭泣

我不在那儿 我没有逝去

E02:(关于“笑”背后隐含的深意) There is nothing more deceptive than a smile,and no one knows this better than the people who hide behind them.

S04 E05(关于“死亡”) Katherine:“What does it feel like? Dying, I mean.” Aunt Lily:“It's not that bad.I feel lucky.When you know time is running out, you get a chance to reflect on your life. I really did try to live a good one.”

E07 (重获新生的Lynette) “What does not kill us, just makes us stronger.”--尼采

E08(关于“谎言”) Why do people resort to deception? Because it's a handy tool that helps get us exactly what we're looking for. 为何人们总是诉诸于谎言? 因为谎言让我们更易接近内心深处的真实愿望。

E09(关于“过去”) We think of the past as water under the bridge,a current that carries away the mistakes of our youths--the loves we lost,the addictions we gave into,the opportunities we threw away……But sooner or later,reminders drift back into our lives of the mistakes we made and the sins we committed. 我们常把过去必成桥下的流水，卷走年少时曾犯下的错误——失去的爱情，沉迷的激情，错过的机遇……但是迟早有人会来提醒我们，人生中犯过的错和造过的孽。 The past is never truly behind us.Ghosts lurk in the shadows,eager to remind us of the choices we made. 过去从未真正逝去。潜伏在暗处的幽灵，总让我们回忆起曾经的选择。 Sadly,some of us refuse to look back,never understanding that by denying the past,we are condenmed to repeat it. 不幸的是，有些人不愿回头看，他们永远不会懂得，否认过去，我们注定会重蹈覆辙。

E10&11(龙卷风，个人认为最好看的两集) McCluskey对着Ida的骨灰说的一段话： “Do not stand at my grave and weep, 不要站在我的坟前哭泣， I'm not there; I do not sleep. 我不在里面，我不在沉睡。 I'm a thousand winds that blow; 我是一阵一阵的微风； I am the diamond glimpse of snow; 我是雪地钻石般的光辉； I'm the sunlight on ripened grain; 我是照在成熟稻子上的阳光； I am the gentle autumn's rain. 我是秋日温柔的细雨。 Do not stand at my grave and cry, 不要站在我的坟前哭泣， I am not there; I did not die.” 我不在里面，我并没有死亡。

E12:(关于内心的“blindness”) Yes,the world is filled with those who cannot see,and the most dangerous are the ones who stay blind to the evil within their own hearts. 这世界到处是丧失视觉的人们， 最危险的是那些对心中恶魔视而不见的人。

E15:(关于“母亲节”) It happens the second Sunday of every May.We celebrate the women who give our life and so much more,the ones who protect us at all costs,who have the courage to fight those who would do us harm,who put our happiness ahead of their own. But mostly,we celebrate a mother's love,which is constant and eternal,and there from the very beginning.

E16:(关于“名字”) What's a name?Did a labels we attach to people, tell us everything we need to know?If we say she's just a child,does it mean she is truly innocent? Does calling her a drug-dealer prove she is purily evil? Will a man known as preacher always practise what he preaches? Can a man branded a villain access the qualities of a hero? The truth is, a name can never really tell you who someone is,any more that they can't tell you what they are capable of. 名字的意义何在? 我们用来识别他人的标签，是否给予我们应知的一切呢?如果我们说她不过是个孩子，是否就意味着她真的无辜?为她冠以毒贩的头衔，就能说明她十恶不赦吗？有着传道士身份的男人，又是否会常常练习传道解惑?被打上罪魁祸首烙印的男人，是否具有创造英雄壮举的潜能? 真相是，名字无法让你看清一个人的真面目，更无法让你知晓他们到底有怎样的能耐。

E17 Tom 教训两个即将结婚的gay的台词: “ Who gets to choose the ice sculpture, who should take out the trash, who has to stay home and make the mini-pitzas, that's the little stuff. What are you gonna do when the big stuffs come along? What are you gonna do when the tornado hits your house, or you have probs with your kids, or one of you gets cancer? At some point,the crap is going to hit the fan, and that's why now before you make the commitment, you have to ask yourself:Is that person in the bed next to you worth the trouble?Do you love him or her so much that no decease,no disaster could possibly pull you apart?” 有些时候，麻烦就是这么产生的。所以现在这时候，在你们做出承诺之前，你必须扪心自问:躺在你身边的那个人，值得你去承担这一切吗？你爱他或者她够深吗？无论疾病灾难，都不会将你们分开吗?

(有些英文是自己听写的，如有错误欢迎指正～)

上一季让我失望透顶差点弃剧，这一季把我又拉回来了。还是差不多的水准，鸡毛蒜皮不断。Bree和奥森差点离婚我觉得有些过了，毕竟她也曾经为儿子掩盖过肇事逃逸。 苏珊这季我感受到了她的可爱，她虽然傻兮兮的但是确实也不计较。有些人又傻还事儿多，苏珊比那种好多了。不过确实过于小事放大了，感觉这是美剧的通病，因为一件特别小的事情就说这个人态度不好，就要离婚，就要一刀两断，很没意思。 勒奈特和汤姆线不好看了，主要是他家那个小妖精，我不明白为什么汤姆能那么盲目，这是他的女儿没错，但是他有没想过这又不是勒奈特的女儿，为什么他自己不做的好一点而是一直要求勒奈特包容。小妖精被送走的时候我感觉天空都明亮了，小孩有的时候比大人想的要邪恶多了，奇怪的是大家似乎都觉得小孩纯真，拜托，咱们都是从小时候过来的，现在回想一下自己当年做的事，撒的谎，还觉得自己纯真吗？ 卡洛斯会瞎是我真没想到的，编剧真是技穷了。把这两人捣鼓来捣鼓去不弄点什么出来就不痛快。盖比自私盲目没想到会和卡洛斯一起这么久。盖比的脑子好像只有核桃大小，过于复杂的情况她理解不了。她出轨是因为觉得自己丈夫不关心她，把自己作为政治工具，拜托不要这么天真好不好，难道每个人结婚都是因为爱上了对方的灵魂？或多或少会看些物质条件。市长爱盖比的美丽机灵以及拉丁裔的选票。盖比爱市长多金英俊能给她上好的生活。大家都半斤八两在这里装什么大尾巴狼。 伊迪是让人最不能理解的，她用账户威胁卡洛斯，接发卡洛斯和盖比的私情给市长，拨打匿名电话举报盖比杀人，趁人之危亲奥森，用孩子的事情威胁布里，这一桩桩一件件，要是在现实社会早就被人设计赶出小区了，但她还是在社区蹦跶的活跃，其他人也像得了健忘症一样下一集就完全不在乎这些事了。真的是看剧不能带脑子，带了就是你不对。